Alot of us are stuck not because we made mistakes, not because we not smart, tall, rich or poor. We are stuck because of the simple fact that we are unable to forgive. Forgiveness is the greatness gift that you can give to yourself. Yes I know they hurt you, but its not your fault, let it go. I know they broke their promise, forgive them. I know they let you down, forgive them. I know they lied on you, forgive them. I know he or she abused you, forgive them. And when you have forgiven everyone, PLEASE FORGIVE YOURSELF.